Transmission from 31 March 2025.
Dear all,
today we are going to dance one of the most peculiar dances in this time-space reality, the dance of One vs Oneness, of Me vs You.
What we are called to learn is as usual go above the polarity, but to do so, to understand deeply both sides of the coin.
Sense these feelings in your body:
I like to help others but I want to be myself as well.
I would like others to take me into account as I do for them, because I matter as well.
Me and You
What we need to understand is that we need to clearly state what we want from others, whether it is met or not, whether and especially if we feel ashamed or afraid about it or not. Be sure to have said what you meant so that the boundary is clearly stated. This way, you will not be angry someone did not take you into account, just because they did not know what you needed.
Speak up for yourselves, you are your primary advocates, you decide what you let others do to you, how much energy you agree to give them and how much of yourself you sacrifice for them.
In reality, we are not meant to be sacrificing. We first. We came here to evolve and to take care of our Souls. We can and should help others, but on terms that still allow us to be our best selves, which is our primary responsability. We first take care of all aspects of our being, our body, mind and Soul through feeling.
To be ourselves is what the world and God actually need from us.
To take care of others while being yourself.
To take other people’s opinions into account while being yourself.
Find a win-win situation while all parties remain themselves.
We are One in terms of Essence, not in terms of mind. You do not need to follow the other person’s ego and adopt the truth that works for them.
You and Me
Now, to the other side of the coin.
Can you allow all opinions to co-exist?
Do you have the capacity to allow all perspectives as valid even though you do not agree with them?
How do you respond when someone expresses an opinion you do not agree with?
If you start defending yourself vehemently, what identity are you defending?
Can you create a space where all perspectives can be expressed freely, without fear?
Can you hear someone else’s opinion without adopting it?
Be careful about the way you express your opinions. Do you say it because it is what you think in this moment or do you say it to persuade the other person to adopt your view?
Be careful about giving advice when it was not asked for.
Do you believe you know the pain of the other person better than themselves?
Do you believe you know better what they need than themselves?
Can you accept that everyone needs their own time to understand something you may have already mastered?
That by imposing the answer you may have harmed them by taking away the opportunity for them to learn it by themselves?
Can you listen without becoming their truth and speak without imposing yours?
Can you build an ego big enough to protect your truth but to not impose your ego to others?
Allow this to yourself and allow others to do it as well. That is the only way humanity can move forward in relationships.
To operate not from a place of fear, where you need to change the other or take something away from them, but from a place where I protect my authenticity and by being wise enough to do so, I understand and allow you to do the same.
Let’s create a ground where the decision we will take allows for everyone’s authenticity to be preserved.
I love you and I love myself.
Realise that at all times, it is you, One, looking at Oneness-God that is in every particle of all things, and Oneness looking back at you through every object you see.
Me and Me
But the foundation is always in you.
It always starts with you.
When you integrate all parts of yourself, the behaviours of no other will perturb you.
When you find your own way that all your being agrees with, you will no longer feel the urge to judge or change other people’s way, you will let them find theirs, because you will know how it feels to finally understand yourself.
And when someone asks you for advice, realise the immensity of the task in front of you, to touch another soul with your words and live up to this task. Show respect and compassion, to create a safe space where you do not listen through your wounds. If they are ready offer them a better perspective, if not, just be quiet.
Make this the practice of your life.
There is no other way to cohabitate and create more Love together.
Thank you wholeheartedly.
Image credit
https://medium.com/@kev.flanco/you-are-the-universe-start-living-like-it-a223934cabc